Another Day in Minnesota Nice.

  I have felt so snubbed here I'm getting crazy. Sitting by the window this morning I noticed two women chatting by a car in the parking lot. My first thought  " Maybe their talking about me "  What? Where did that come from? I haven't had that thought since the 9th grade.  I think it must be a reaction from living here four months
   Here is another MN experience. The woman accross the hall is very strange. For the first month we lived here she would've even make eye contact. Eventually she would give me slight smile and then quickly look away.  Now I see her chatting away with other tenants so I guess it's just me because she is very unfriendly to me .Then a few weeks ago I was going in and out carring  laundry back and forth. After about my third trip she stopped me at the door and ask me if I would please not slam the door each time I went in and out. OK First I was not slamming the door I was letting it go because I had a laundry basket in my arms. Now granted we do have a heavy door and Bill mentioned I let it slam . So I appolized profusely and told her I would be more careful in the future. Did she accept my appolize ? No , she in true Minnesota Nice proceeded to blow up ranting about how her whole house was shaking, rattling pictures and things on shelves. Bam,  Bam , Bam her exact words.
 OMG that was just bull.It was my door and my pictures and kik naks  were  not rattling. I just stared at her appolized  one more time and walked away.
   I keep telling my self to go to church or join a yoga class and maybe I can make some friends. But to tell the truth I have become gun shy. Don't know if my ego  can take another snub.